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Who We Serve

  • We work with engaged couples of all ages, races, and sexual orientations, as well as those in non-traditional relationship configurations.
  • We are very open to serving those who are not interested in the formal and legal arrangement of marriage, but who want to create meaningful ritual in honor of their relationship.
  • We also offer our work to those already in committed partnership who want to address and include their shadow material as part of a vow renewal process.

This process is not for the faint of heart.

If you are someone who prefers to keep things on the light side, a Shadow Wedding may not be for you. We have found that the Shadow Wedding process benefits those who feel strongly about doing their psychological and spiritual work, who view relationship as a crucible for growth, and who recognize that the truth does not always make us comfortable. We have created a self-assessment survey to help you decide if a Shadow Wedding is right for you.

From a Shadow Wedding witness:

"If more marriages undertook a Shadow Wedding ceremony, divorce rates would plummet! Couples would really see and know each other, and drop their unrealistic expectations.

"Jessica and Jim bring integrity, love, and a breadth of experience to this work. I recommend them wholeheartedly."

Sabrina Chaw, woman's empowerment and wellness coach